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Thursday, May 28, 2009

taken aback

I was taken aback of two things today..

CASE 1

A new teacher has reported herself a few weeks ago in my school. Me, being myself, as friendly as always greeted her and we introduced each other. She, a local girl who before had work at KL and then took KPLI.. and aged 32 years old.. slightly older than me.. well I am 29 this year.. and she is still single..

Realising she is older than I am, and its sort of my habit to address the elder with an appropriate name, I call her Kak Siti (bukan nama sebenar) but she refused to have been called kakak.. she said ," panggil nama aje takpe".. ok.. fine with me and I respect her request.. So I call her just by her name.. and today.. She came to me and said," Kak Liza... bla bla bla.. "

She does not allow me to address her like that and yet she called me "kak"? hmmmm...

CASE 2

There was a death in front of my school. Here in Terengganu it was sort of a culture to pay a visit to the deceased family even though they are not related or even the family friends. So most of my school staffs including the teachers took turn to pay for the final tribute.

I was asked by a senior on when to go because she would like to tag along. I replied that I am not sure. She said to inform her if I want to go. I said," insyaallah.. nanti saya bagitau".. So she went back to her class while I continued reading the newspaper when my boss asked me to go with her to the funeral.. without any hesitation I agreed because suddenly I remembered that I have to go home early because I need to go to the PPD.. I did not inform that senior that I was going to the funeral that very moment because I thought she could go with the others later. Suddenly on my way back to the school after the visit I received an sms saying that," nape pergi tak cakap akak.. sekarang akak takde kawan nak gi".. so I called and told her that there were others who would go during the afternoon and she could go along then..

I thought it was settled but during lunch ( there was a jamuan), I noticed that her face was all red and it was so obvious that she has been crying. I ignored her until one of my colleague who went along with me to the funeral told me that that senior was so terasa that I did not ask her to go together.. What was she thinking? Gi jalan2 cari makan ke? If it is I would be so happy to have her along...

conclusion : What's with this people.. grow up!!!

15 comments:

apis585 said...

mmm...mmg mcm2 kan perangai manusia kenkadang igt dlm drama jek ade org perangai camtu..

Baiti Mustafa said...

adoiii...nak kata budak kecik..dah besar boleh jd mak orang dah..

hawaDila said...

layan kan jer... perangai manusia susah nak berubah walaupun dah tue bangka.. hahahaha

chucky said...

case 1....
dia ingat dia x kawen lg dia muda lah tuuuu

case 2..
susah nk pujok,g ajak dia kuar makanpastu ckp kt dia,buruok betul mung merajuk

elly said...

pening betul deal dgn orang2 camni ek...sabar jelah kurt..

Nana said...

sabar aje lah! nak buat camne .. people are weird in many ways than one! hehe!

emmii said...

thinking of it, you would have probably miss us after all those things happened. gila betui, but there IS someone like that in this world. for situation no. 1, just tell her that you're younger than her. kena outspoken skit. situation no. 2, apologize to her. kalau dia buat derk, kita pun buat derk jer laa...lama2 ok ler tuh (ala, macam kita2 nih...heheheheh)

mrs suffi said...

panggil jer minah tue 'akak' balik..peduli ape siot..tak sedar diri betoi..ntah apa2!! blah lah..klu saya dah lama kena panggil kuat2..akak!!!!! nie ha..bla bla bla...
2nd kes tue maybe dia nak manja ngan akak kot..ekekekeekeke

.:nhalilah:. said...

hrrmmm.. macam2 kerenah.. yup u r right... 'plse grow up".. utk kes 1.. call her with 'kakak' title.. utk kes 2.. buat bodo je.. as if there nothing happen..

::cikgu liza:: said...

apis - nih nama dia cekikrama.. bukan cerekarama dah..

baiti - tulah.. tuh semua pangakt kakak tuh..

dila - layan? i buat dunno ajek..

chucky - belum kawin pun tetap dia lebih dari kita kan.. yg sorang lagi tuh.. tak tau la.. kesian pun ada.. tgkla nanti..

elly - so childishly like tau.. memang sabar aje lapon..

nana - haah kan sis.. so weird.. sampai merah padam muka dia nangis.. tak paham betul..

emmy - actually.. dah cakap dgn dia dah.. she still referred me as kakak.. second one tuh.. I dont think I have to apologize.. hahahhahaha.. ego seh!!!

bini suffi - no. satu tuh sudah sound cara baik sebenarnya.. tapi masih lagi gitu.. hmm.. yg no 2. manja ke hapa dah tua2.. tak kuasa ku nak layan..

ila - Im totally agree with u!!! hehhe

haku ko said...

yeah..grow up la...! adoi..prangai mcm budak2 kan...

@tune® said...

ala...yg xkawen tuh sajer jer tuh..jeles sbb die tua..

g la minta maaf ye kak

::cikgu liza:: said...

haku ko - seriously.. they need to grow up.. be a bit mature please...

atune - nak minta maaf ke? tgh cuti nih.. lagi 2 minggu baru jumpa.. tgklah mood dia mcm mana.. and mood akak pun mcm mana nanti.. hehehhehe!!

SALFAEZAN said...

Klakarla citer ni. Cam aku biasa dgr je. Kt skolah aku pun mcm2 peel cikgu2 nye. Dua2 cikgu ni xbaca blog ko ke liza? klu diorg terbaca aku tataula drama apa pulak yg akan jadi wakakakkaak

::cikgu liza:: said...

tak tau la.. cikgu sekolah aku tak ramai yg ada internet and reti benda2 gini.. kalu ada yg baca un takpe.. lu pikirlah sendiri..